One step at a Time!!!

Sometimes its better to just not know where your journey will lead you. Without thinking about the Destination, if one is able to just concentrate on the step one is taking, life would be much much more Enjoyable.

For in life, more than the Destiny , "the Journey is the Purpose"

LIFE IS TO LIVE NOT JUST EXIST!

Dear Students,

                     I'm writing this blog to all students out there who still run behind syllabus & marks & who still concentrate on your weakness & worry day & night! I say u, ur time to worry is over. Just keep ur books aside, ur family, ur life, all that u r aside & see the world for what it is! Just for what it is, just see it the way u saw it once u were a kid, for a minute put knowledge beside & put forth ur common sense.

WHAT DO U GUYS C?
Don't u feel the breeze around?
Don't u sense the smell of beautiful flowers or some delicious dish ur momma s cooking? (Hopefully the atmosphere around u is good) ;)
What do u see?
Your room, now is there really any tension there?
Just take a deep breath!
INHALE :)
EXHALE :D
That's it. Now listen to the Truth I'm gonna say!

The books u'll read, the syllabus we follow, everything has purpose in it only if we understand it, feel it & take it for life. Just learn because u enjoy learning. Don't compel urself to do something that u don't like. Never Fear to do the right things in Life. Fear is a Hindrance to Growth.
The books, esp Engineering books that we try to mug putting so much pressure in our heads didn't fall from the sky! They are written by people who were once children like us. Their prolonged practice has what made them the Genius that they are! So Fear not for Examinations. All that we learn are not different languages, it just another fact about the world we live in. Never lose ur Enthusiasm & Interest while learning, these are the base things a good Student needs.
Have Basic Education, but if being a topper is not your goal, n if ur interests is sports , art , music or whatever it may be, do not quit, do not suppress them, if u do not have enough facilities to learn them from a big institute, do not worry, Experience is the Best teacher, just open ur eyes, look around, if u REALLY want to do a thing, OPPORTUNITY would be just around the corner, ur knowledge can't teach u dis, just FEEL it. Whatever be ur situation, keep COOL, its just a situation not a problem, Be present in the Present. ALways follow ur Heart. It will never let u down.

There are only 3 things u can do to a problem, (Ref. Power of Now)
1) Accept it
2) Change it
3) Remove it

So, atleast from now on, instead of speaking about people, start speaking about ideas. LIFE IS TO LIVE NOT JUST EXIST! BE PRESENT IN THE PRESENT. BON VOYAGE!

INNOCENCE OR IGNORANCE????

                      Who are v to blame? The Society or The Individual?? They say that, more than the person eho fools others, its the person who is Fooled is to be Blamed! In our Society our people just Accept! Accept that somebody in some place has been Robbed, Somebody has been Kidnapped, Somebody has been abused! We read such news, & either pray to God, or fear the Society or Blame the Society!
                       WHO IS THE SOCIETY??? WE R THE SOCIETY! In this Generation Everything has become for TRP Rating! Even the Press (My personal opinion), which was once Established to create awareness, now has become something that shines on TRP Rating!
                       As for Politics!!! Its a Sakadai!!! Who are the people Ruling us, Learned people or atleast people who care for us? NO! People who have raped, people who have Gundas, people who want to earn earn earn not only for them but for their next 10 Generations & still can't be content with it!
                       INDIA A DEMOCRATIC COUNTRY! Atleast that's what they thought me in my 7th std History! A Nation For the people, Of the people & By the people! Then I was a kid, I blindly believed that my Nation will take care of me, I blindly believed Everything I read! I believed my Teachers, I believed! But now MY BELIEF IS AT STAKE!
                       Recently also I read a news, A girl raped by 12 men , 5 of them caught & rest 7 Escaped, If our Government has proper rules will there be Cases like this? And what about Prostitution - it has become a part of every film! Every film has atleast one scene of all these ugly aspects of our society! They call it awareness! For big people its awareness! But for Children who grow up watching the present day media, its no awareness until their parents guide them! Today's parents spend no time in guiding their children! They are so busy with their own work & though it is true that they are working for their children only, children if not influenced by parents, get influenced by Society, today's Society is of no Good Influence to the Children of this Generation! Its the films which mostly influence them, so naturally they speak rubbish, have no respect for Elders & go on for Worldly pleasures! When grown up people so damn get a fascination to do bad things so easily, who are kids! A spark is enough for them! They have to be trained from young, not with stupid advices , but with Role-Modelistic Living!
                     We have taken all the Bad things happening to us lying down! We have always waited for God to come and help us! Who is God? WE HUMANS WHEN WE THINK OF OTHERS & PUT OUR EMOTIONS UNDER THE PURPOSE WE BECOME GOD FOR SOMEBODY! God is not going to come directly & help us! Its us who have to stand for our Rights! Why must we put up with something that makes us think every night without letting us sleep peacefully! Its time to Change the World we live in!

                         LIFE IS 1% HOW WE TAKE IT & 99% WHAT WE MAKE IT!

My Momma Dint Quit On Me :D

                                            Many a times in life, when I get stressed I try to tell myself, this situation is not permanent, things will change! I try to make myself Happy so I could move & most times I go to sleep! I read this in a book recently & the phrase went like this,
                        "Sleep is something people do when they do not want to face reality!"
So Damn True!!!
Then I question myself, is my situation so worse, is it so painful that I could not move on! What is worst thing that could happen now? Then, I realize that I'm not in a worse situation at, I must face it! Not Run away or worry! That's not gonna solve my problems at all! There is only one person in this whole world who is Responsible for my Happiness, & that's none other than "Myself"!!!
             At such painful situations, when I feel like running away from my problems, there is something that has never failed to strengthen me, and u guys know what's that, "My MOMMA", I think of my Momma, a person who underwent so much pain to give me birth, if she had given up then I wouldn't be here! If she had run away from that situation I would have never been born! Until now my momma & papa, the pains and sacrifices they've undergone all their life to bring up my sister and me, if they had ever given up even once in their life, I would never be where I am now! 

              So, this is what strengthens me in my life, The LOVE my parents and sister shower on me :) I'm so glad I've such a wonderful Family. When many of my friends come and complaint about their lives to me, usually I feel damn irritated, there is so much in life to be Happy about, but pests, they just find the negatives in life and keep complaining, & what's more they Xpect me to Sympathize with them!! There is a Solution to all problems man! You think it gets solved just because you complain to others! DAMN NO! Rather than going & complaining to others, just find ways to solve your own problems! Stop trying to earn Sympathy, its just a waste of both people's time! There is Nothing Impossible in this world!
 OUR ULTIMATE PURPOSE IN LIFE IS TO BE HAPPY :)
WAYS TO BE HAPPY!
1) QUIT ON UR LAZINESS & START BECOMING INDEPENDENT
2) AFTER FINISHING UR WORK IF U CAN HELP OTHERS 
3) SEE THE POSITIVE OF OTHERS & SEE HOW U CAN COMBINE UR IDEAS
4) TRUST URSELF
5) NEVER DEMEAN URSELF OR OTHERS, REMEMBER U DON'T HAVE RIGHTS TO DO THAT!
6) RESPECT URSELF & OTHERS
7) DON'T TRY TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY BY HURTING URSELF, HAVING ENEMIES IS NOT A FAULT, HAVING EGO IS NOT A FAULT, IT MAKES US HUMAN! BUT DON'T LET THEM OVERTAKE U! ITS BETTER NOT TO WASTE TIME ON PEOPLE WHOM U DON'T LIKE RATHER THEN LETTING UR THOUGHTS HURT U & OTHERS!

8) FOLLOW UR HEART & BE THE MASTER OF UR MIND!
9) WHEN FATE HANDS U A LEMON, MAKE LEMONADE
10) BE CONTENT & SMART WORKING!


These points have helped me lead a HAPPY & OPTIMISTIC LIFE :) Hope they help u too! 

HAPPY LIVING :)

Love & Hate!!!

    Why does these fights come,
     Between us & our loved ones!
     For a minute everything is fine,
     The next minute the situation is a spoil vine!

     The elders don't understand,
     The impact it has on the young ones!
     They shout shout shout,
     With all their doubts,
     Making their young minds Rot!

      My heart dwells in pain,
      My efforts go in vain!
      Every minute tears fall like rain,
      All these make me insane!

      What is the solution,
       To all these Delusions,
       My young heart can take no more,
       Of all this insanity of the elders!
   
       All these want to make me cry,
       But there is a saying I believe,
       " People who cry or get angry
        Are people who are fit for nothing! "
       And also,
       " Pain is common, but Suffering is a Choice"
        So I choose the words,
        "Instead of 'Why me?', It's gonna be a 'Try me', here after"

        All these pains are self-created,
        There is an internal joy that is secreted,
        Inside each one of us,
        So let's follow are hearts,
        And always be Happy :) :) :)
     
        HAVE A GREAT, HAPPY, & SMILING DAY :)
     


     
      

Love & Relationships!!

   The most beautiful thing in this world, LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS :) How beautiful it is to care & have someone to care for us! Its a WOW feeling! Ofcourse with love comes pain, but true relationships never die!

   How good it is to have a loving Mother <3
   The care & affection that exists in her scoldings!
   And to have a Military Perfection expecting Dad,
   But the Love & Trust he shows in his scowls ain't bad!

   Who else can we play WWF with,
    If not our SIBLINGS!
    They are the ones with us,
    Right from the times of our Scribblings.
 
    Elder or Younger, time flies when we all get together!
    Who else could  I emphasize here, but my cousins!
    All our worries just vanish,
    In the happiness that comes out of our mockeries!

    Its these relationships that split our sorrows to pieces,
    And triple our joys & make us realize the meaning of true love!
    I love these people & no ego could split us anymore,
    For joys & sorrows that we are to share is many more!
 
    P.S: Dedicated to my Family of 4, my cousins & reltives :)

                                  In the thought of Winning, don't damn miss the journey. Keep moving forward, the victory will follow!